Sputter
Maybe, maybe not, but it’s just a slower, less fun – and often – more expensive road without one!
Bill Gates and Google CEO Eric Schmidt believe that everyone needs a coach!!! Eric Schmidt says “The one thing people are never good at is see themselves as others see them. A coach really really helps.”
All of us go through life right from childhood being influenced and taught by parents, teachers, friends, relatives. We also go through thousands of experiences some good and many bad. This resides and builds within us as beliefs. Most of these beliefs and unconscious beliefs. As we progress through our lives getting through college, getting a job, getting married these beliefs get reinforced some more get added and results in what becomes of us as a person. We do not feel good about ourselves, our relationships start souring, health issues crop up and we do not find anyone who can solve our issues. Our desperation in trying to be happy makes us go on vacations, investing in what we think is our dream house, dream car or bike but the results are still the same. We go to temples, do yoga, exercises, take up some sport, meet gurus and do meditation. It does help a little but the life still remains a challenge. We feel inadequate, insecure, fearful and stressed.
Can this be resolved? Of course? This is where a life coach comes in.
Rajan does not mentor or counsel but becomes a mirror to your life. Provides you a view of where and what is causing you to feel the way you are. The reflections go back right to your childhood (some of the memories are either forgotten or buried deep within) and the established patterns are revealed to you.
Once this is done then the current and future are discussed and as a objective sounding board all the confusion is removed and more clarity emerges
The final stage to develop the goals and work on specific actions which will constantly reviewed. The idea is to provide empowerment and ownership hence it will only be a facilitation.
Can this be resolved? Of course? This is where a life coach comes in.
As a Life Coach in Bangalore I do use a unique combination of mind and body with the foundation of spirituality to make difference to peoples lives.
I work both on the conscious as well the as the subconscious which helps rewir the brain to a new way of thinking.
It is a long process and not a quick fix. It is a journey of self-discovery. It is important to trust yourself and process to enjoy the transformation. Our education system has trained our minds to look the complete solution before execution. But life does not work that way. Let the journey unfold. Let the questions get asked. You will be pleasantly surprised. I can only tell you by experience and understanding that every step you take with trust will open up more and more beautiful things in your life. This journey will help you with the following
Removing and neutralizing your irrational fears. Enables youto replace them with more enabling stories, ones that help you be more productive and confident.
Will push you to get clarity on what you want from life. Clarity is one of the biggest benefits.
Training your mind to always think about what’s next. Dwelling on the past is fine as long as you’re learning from it. Otherwise, your focus should be on the future. Action and positive action is what you will learn to do.
Coaching helps you hone your strengths correctly and be mindful of your weaknesses. doesn’t help you ‘strengthen your strengths and improve your weaknesses.’ That’s typical corporate speak. No one can turn into superman and that’s not the objective of coaching.
Helps you develop the mind of a problem solver. You will create new, positive neural pathways in your brain that sniff out opportunities, reserve judgment, find confidence and replace ‘I want this but’ with ‘I want this and so…’
There are several benefits of having a certified life coach support you. Some of them are:
An accountability partner – your life coach keeps you accountable to your goals and action plans thereby ensuring you reach your desired outcome
A safe space to explore yourself – life coaches are trained in specific competencies like listening, empathy and questioning that helps create a safe and non-judgemental space to explore your thoughts and ideas freely
A sounding board – your life coach will often act like a sounding board helping you gain clarity on desired goals and outcomes.
An evidencebased process for growth – studies have shown that having a life coach has increased the probability of achieving results than otherwise
Taking control of your life today.
Coaching helps you hone your strengths correctly and be mindful of your weaknesses. doesn’t help you ‘strengthen your strengths and improve your weaknesses.’ That’s typical corporate speak. No one can turn into superman and that’s not the objective of coaching.
Helps you develop the mind of a problem solver. You will create new, positive neural pathways in your brain that sniff out opportunities, reserve judgment, find confidence and replace ‘I want this but’ with ‘I want this and so…’
OR in a nutshell here’s what people who have worked with me have got:
A positive frame of mind
Freedom from confusion
Better self-esteem and self-confidence
Goal and action orientation
Higher belief in self
Enhanced productivity and more efficient time-management
Mastery over procrastination and improved focus
Better control over the tendency to regret about the past and worry about the future
Ability to stay calm and strong in situations that usually cause anxiety and stress
Mental make-up and courage to quit corporate life and get into entrepreneurship
Reduced conflicts at home and office, better relationships
Improved health and cure from chronic illnesses.
Formation of new good habits and elimination of unproductive ones.
If you do feel you are lost or stuck in your life or feeling sad, lonely and depressed or just feeling depressed, don’t hesitate just pick up the phone and have chat with me. We can do a free exploratory session with no binding from my side.
This session will help you decide whether you want to go ahead and sign up for a coaching engagement with me.
Just click on the time and date on the calender below. It shows my real time availability. Leave your skype or whatsapp details, your preference and I shall call you at the chosen date and time. You could also connect with me on whatsapp or give a call on the number mentioned below.